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39 – Abuse and Survival with Dr. Sandra Speer – Ph.D., CLC, CDRC – Legal Advocate, & Survivor at Lifeanswers

Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 1:17:37 — 64.0MB) | EmbedSubscribe: Google Podcasts | Stitcher | Email | RSS | subscribe ANNOUNCMENTS FAN-PAC EVENT – HELP IS HERE! MORE SUCCESS STORIES AND SOLUTION-BASED INTERVENTIONS TO MEND BROKEN FAMILY BONDS Thursday, September 23, 2021 6:30 PM  9:00 PM Zoom (map) Google Calendar  ICS LINK TO REGISTER LINK TO ASK QUESTIONS OF PRESENTER NEW MERCHANDISE – CLICK ON HOODIE TO SEE MORE STYLES   DR SANDRA SPEER As a survivor of almost a lifetime of most forms of abuse, I pledged to use all that I learn in life to help others one…


If you’re contemplating divorce…

Relationships are hard.  They were not designed that way, but they are now.  Have you ever wondered why?  Or do you think you’re the only person that struggles with their marriage?  How did you view marriage as a teenager or young adult?  Did you look at someone’s perfect wedding day photos and say, that’s going to be me someday?  Maybe you expected, “happily ever after” to mean we’re just so perfect for each other we’ll never have any problems. If that’s what you were told, taught, or shown you’re probably reading this because you have now experienced something else, and…


Dr. Sandra Speer, Ph.D., CLC, CDRC – Legal Advocate & Survivor at Lifeanswers.

SHOW NOTES 1.        As a survivor of almost a lifetime of most forms of abuse, I pledged to use all that I learn in life to help others one day.  At that time, I was 17 with little knowledge of who my actual abusers were or how severely they had hurt me.  At that time, I only thought I was suffering from childhood rape. With God as my only guide, I survived the many threats to my life and physical health.  Today, as a survivor, I ask God to continue to watch over me and give me the strength to…


Too Important not to watch – Save James on the Dad Talk Today Show

We’ve done a show or two already discussing the “Save James” case.  To get you caught up real quick, Jeff Younger in the Dallas Texas area has been fighting for more than a few years now to prevent his ex wife from turning his son into a girl.  While previous cases prevented her from chemically castrating the boy the father gives updates on the attached video about his latest court defeat.  The court is going to allow the mother to transition the boy socially, meaning he will be brought up as a girl.  Please watch this video and consider either…



The Current Crisis is Nothing New for Family Court Victims.

(Don’t miss our FAN-PAC event this Thursday night July 29th – Details at the bottom of this post) If you’ve been thru family court, you have a healthy distrust for government or you should. I’ve run in to some who don’t understand that there was never a chance you would get justice in the family court. Either spouse can violate the marriage covenant without accountability. No Fault divorce ensures that. Whoever gets the temporary restraining order in first gets the upper hand. Attorneys convince you that destroying your soon to be ex is the only way to prevent (him or…



2021 03 17 – Re-play of FAN-PAC Legal Symposium

Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 2:21:21 — 116.9MB) | EmbedSubscribe: Google Podcasts | Stitcher | Email | RSS | subscribe On March 5th, 2021 FAN-PAC of New Jersey (www.fanpacnj.org/donate) held a legal symposium followed by a question and answer session with Attorney Steven M. Resnick, Esq., a partner at Ziegler, Resnick & Epstein. He is a matrimonial and family lawyer and one of New Jersey’s trailblazing practitioners in custody matters and the area of parental alienation. A highly skilled litigator, Mr. Resnick handles all aspects of matrimonial and family law relating to divorce, equitable distribution, palimony, annulment,…


2021 03 04 – Weekly Hopecast for Broken Families

Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 43:59 — 45.1MB) | EmbedSubscribe: Google Podcasts | Stitcher | Email | RSS | subscribe March 4th, 2021 – THE SAVING FATHERHOOD – WEEKLY HOPECAST FIRST ANNOUNCEMENT I want to personally invite each and every one of you to a ZOOM event this Friday March 5th at 7pm.  FAN-PAC is New Jersey’s Family Advocate Network – A Political Action committee with a mission to advocate for reforms in the family court that protect the interests of children and families in the state of New Jersey.  This Friday this online event will feature…


Susan Shofer, Tedx on Parental Alienation

I like the way this video explains Parental Alienation simply by sharing the experience of a child. You may be new to the term “parental alienation”. You may suspect that your child or grandchild may be the “victim” of parental alienation. If so this video is very helpful so I’m sharing it here on this page. Sometimes Parental Alienation is overly hyped as a very technical psychological pathogen. It is not technical at all. Helping a child from the pain that is caused by it can be however. Some lawyers or other professionals may tell you it doesn’t exist or…